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		Bar Mitzvah 
		Preparation: The TefillinA Conservative Perspective
	by Rivka C. Berman
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Tefillin – Phylacteries With mysterious black boxes and long flowing leather straps, tefillin 
have an otherworldly look about them. Even their origins are cloaked in mystery. 
No specific instructions are given in the Torah as to the look or content of the 
tefillin. (Rabbis credit the distinctive box and strap combination to a 
tradition that extends all the way back to Moses at Mt. Sinai )
 
 Wearing tefillin is a mitzvah derived from the words: “And you should bind them 
as a sign on your hand and they should be as ‘frontlets’ between your eyes.” 
(Deuteronomy 6:8). What the verse asks us to remember is the instruction to love 
God, which appears a verse or two before, and the whole sequence is part of the 
shema prayer. What are frontlets? Webster’s Dictionary defines them as a “band 
or phylactery worn on the forehead.”
 
 What’s Inside Tefillin?
 Inside each box are four compartments, each one containing a small piece 
of parchment inscribed with a few Torah verses. Most tefillin follow the 
parchment order set out by Rashi, a medieval commentator. His grandson, Rabbeinu 
Tam, established a different order that a minority of tefillin wearers feel is 
right.
 
 Regardless of which order you use, the Rashi approach is most common, the verses 
will be the same.
 
 One compartment will contain the Shema from Deuteronomy 6:4-9. “Here O Israel, 
the Lord Our God, the Lord is one. And you should love the Lord, your God with 
all of your hearts and with all of your soul and with all of your ability. And 
these words that I am commanding you today should be in your heart.”
 
 Compartment two is from Deuteronomy 11:13-21. The verses elaborate on the reward 
that awaits those who love and serve God, and then hints to the punishment 
allotted to those who don’t.
 
 “And it will be is you listen to My commandments that I am commanding you today, 
to love the Lord, your God, and to serve God with all of your hearts and with 
all of your souls, then I will give you rain for your land in its season, the 
early and late rains, and you will gather your grain, your wine and your oil. 
And I will give you grass in your fields for your animals and you will eat and 
you will be satisfied. Guard yourself that lest your heart becomes deceived and 
you turn away and worship other gods, bowing down to them….”
 
 Compartment three selects verses from Exodus 13:1-10. “…And Moses said to the 
People remember this when you went out of Egypt from the house of bondage, 
because it was with a strong hand that God removed you from there…” The Torah 
goes on to command the Jewish people to celebrate Passover in the spring as a 
remembrance of the spring exodus. Matza eating and not having leavened products 
in the home are specified as part of the holiday. “And you should tell your 
children on that day saying: This [Passover] is done because of that which the 
Lord did to me when I came out of Egypt.” Then tefillin are hinted to with the 
words “And it should be for you a sign on your hand and a memorial between your 
eye so that the Torah of God should be in your mouth.”
 
 Compartment four furthers this theme with Exodus 13:11-16. God’s role in freeing 
the Jews from Egypt is to be recalled whenever the tefillin are worn.
 
 What are Tefillin Made Of?
 All verses are written on parchment by a scribe. A special dye is used 
to turn the outer leather boxes black, and the best tefillin boxes are shaped 
out of one piece of leather. The long leather straps are traditionally painted 
black.
 
 Putting on Tefillin
 A set of tefillin includes two boxes, each attached to straps.
 
 One is called the tefillin shel yad, hand tefillin. Tefillin shel yad is 
tightened around the left biceps (but lefties wear them around their right 
biceps) about heart level. Straps from the shel yad are wound down the arm and 
across the hand and fingers in a very specific way.
 
 The second is called tefillin shel rosh and is worn just above the forehead, but 
not lower than the hairline. Straps below the knot are left to dangle around the 
shoulders.
 
 Two blessings are pronounced during the tefillin winding. First, the shel yad 
are strapped onto the biceps. Nothing, such as a shirt sleeve, should come 
between the tefillin and the skin. Once the straps are wound to wrist level, the 
first blessing is said.
 
	
	Baruch atah Adonai Eloheinu Melech Haolam 
	asher kidishanu b’mitzvotav v’tzivanu l’haniach tefillin.
 Blessed are You, God, Our God, Ruler of the world who has made us holy with 
	the commandments and commanded us to lay tefillin.
 
Then the tefillin shel rosh are tightened around the 
head, and the second blessing is said. 
	
	Baruch atah Adonai Eloheinu Melech Haolam 
	asher kidishanu b’mitzvotav v’tzivanu al mitzvat tefillin.
 Blessed are You, God, Our God, Ruler of the world who has made us holy with 
	the commandments and commanded us regarding the tefillin.
 
Afterward, the leftover length of the tefillin shel 
yad straps are wound around the palm and fingers.   
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